INVALID "confirm you are *not* a Member" emails

I have provided examples from 3 clubs below from 3 different members that received INVALID messages about removing them from the member lists.
I am pro-actively looking for the tool to disabling the "not a member" links as suggested in the email body.
Members would like to know WHY this happened. Thanks. 

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From: Toastmasters Club 594729 on behalf of Admin < This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. >
Sent: Thursday, October 12, 2023 7:50 AM
Subject: [COL] Please confirm you are *not* a Member of Club 594729 now

2. On Thu, Oct 12, 2023 at 7:38 AM Toastmasters Club 28675724 on behalf of Admin <server@toastmastersclubs.org> 
[TJ] Please confirm you are *not* a Member of Club 28675724 now

3.
From: Toastmasters Club 926 on behalf of Admin < This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. >
Sent: Thursday, October 12, 2023 2:34 PM
Subject: [926] Please confirm you are *not* a Member of Club 926 now
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wrote:

Hello,

A "Not a Member" link was clicked in an email to request that Venus Wilmer, DTM be moved to Former Member status in the website for club 28675724, Toast & Jam!.

If you clicked that link, then please also click the following link to confirm that your status should really be changed to Former Member status in the website:
28675724.toastmastersclubs.org/?action=N...3&_=gCbu&confirmed=Y

If you did not click that link, then please just ignore or delete this email. 
(You may also want to discuss disabling the "Not a Member" links with your club website admin or discourage your members from forwarding emails.)

Note that this only affects your status in the club 28675724 website.  It does *not* affect your status with Toastmasters International--that is separate and different.

>>> We apologize for requiring this extra step--it has become necessary due to problems caused by people clicking the "Not a Member" link in emails forwarded to them (not originally sent to them).

Thank you for all that you have accomplished in Toastmasters and all that you have contributed to your club!

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