I created a group called Mentors. Our club number 5086. According to Club e-mail Addresses, "This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it." is a legal address. I used it to send a message to mentors and potential mentors.
I'm on a Mac mini that I barely know how to use; the OS is something like "OS-X Yosemite"; the browser is Safari 8.0.2; I know nothing about "browser cache"; yes, I believe cookies are enabled; and I have no idea how to take a screen shot. I fear that Toastmasters has passed me by. I didn't join to learn Mandarin; and I didn't join to learn whatever this computer language is.
I got the following back when I sent the message; what do I do?
The original message was received at Wed, 10 Dec 2014 03:32:04 GMT
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From: Jim Wood <This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.>
Subject: FACC Mentors: Need Your Help
Date: December 9, 2014 at 8:31:54 PM MST
To: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
Hi, potential FACC mentors — If you receive this email, and if the new “group” capability on FTH2 is working, then I am writing to ask your help.
Each of you is far enough along on the Toastmasters path to be able to help a new member to get adjusted, to feel comfortable, to appreciate their strengths, to identify their weaknesses (or their fears), and mostly just to feel that this club is the right one to help them achieve their goals and to set new ones they never knew they wanted!
I am pleading for your commitment to help in one, or both, of two ways.
Volunteer to be a Mentor to a New Member.
Volunteer to help us create a “Mentoring Program.”
I don’t want to overwhelm you with details, and I don’t even have those details available right now . . . but . . . roughly . . . the two volunteer positions represent the following:
As a Mentor, you would promise (to the best of your ability) to do the following:
Contact your mentee by phone/email at least once a week to see if they are coming to that week’s meeting, see whether they have any questions about their role in the forthcoming meeting.
[NOTE: “forthcoming” is properly used here; it does NOT mean “forthright,” despite the attempts of the Watergate investigation to make it so!]
Contact your mentee as appropriate to see how they are coming along with next speech.
You and your menthe work our how much detail you want to discuss.
Doug B and I talked mainly about “topics” that would fit the project.
Ruth T and Eva D discussed aspects of the speech itself, since Ruth had it written out.
The point here is for you to get to know your mentee well enough to know what is appropriate.
Help your mentee brainstorm ideas for speeches, and mentor them through their first 3 speeches.
This one is really subsidiary to the one above, but I separated it because it is all that TI “requires” for you to get credit for “mentoring” in the CL manual, project #9 in the Competent Leader manual. My own preference is that you stay together through the firs 6 speeches, since the first 3 deal with what TI calls “content” and the second 3 deal with presentation. Everything else in Toastmasters is built on those 6.
Your evaluation for Project #9 in the CL manual contains the following questions:
Did your mentor address your concerns and offer helpful advice . . . ?
Did your mentor help you recognize skills that need improvement . . . ?
Was the mentor available, patient, sensitive, knowledgable, flexible and a good listener?
What could he or she have done differently to be a better mentor?
What did he or she do well?
You would also offer feedback to the group that is working on a “Mentoring Program.”
As a Mentoring Program Member, you would commit to meet with other members to do the following:
Determine “best practices” in mentor/mentee relationships
Structure those “best practices” (along with the mentoring objectives and activities) into a handbook that will help future mentors to be of maximum help to their mentees.
Do whatever else is necessary to make our mentoring program a positive drawing-card for our club.
I would like to hear from everybody, please. This is not a time or place to run and hide. You promised to help the Club in leadership roles, when you joined. The Club needs you to “step up and step out” now.
If you must say “no,” then please say it. I can think of few things more frustrating than having members hide in silence.
But this is what we need. We have Nora, Sharon F, Nancy, Elva, Beth, and Aileen who have recently joined us . . . each with varying needs for communication/leadership improvement. In some ways, they may be further along than we are . . . or, at least, than I am. But we have experience within the organization. We can listen to their needs and help them to find what they are looking for. Their success may depend on our ability to listen. Please volunteer for one or both of the positions I have outlined above.
And one final point: Ruth T looked at the Club, saw something missing, and did something about it. She, as Educational VP, has created an Orientation Program for new members. Nancy, Elva and Beth have been through it; Aileen is starting. Ruth’s program is magnificent.
But I compared what Ruth has done to an algebra theorem I might have presented in my teaching days: yes, I “introduced” my class to the concept; but until they worked with it themselves, they would never “know” and concept, and it would not be “theirs.” So it is with our meetings, our functionaries, our speeches, and our evaluations. You are needed to help the new members make the meetings and the opportunities “theirs.” Please help.
I assume if you hit “Reply” it will go to everybody. That’s fine. But if you want more privacy, just send your response back to me.
Thanks — Jim W