How to update FTH website for my club

support.toastmastersclubs.org/doc/documentation-index

I don't know how to do any of that, I am just trying to help the club out and start using FTH, but it sounds very complicated. Maybe that's why so many Toastmasters have always said to stay away from FTH. It sounds like it may be easier to delete the existing site and just start a brand new one like my 2nd club did.

Take it one step at a time, it is actually very simple to use.
Find one thing you want to change and look it up in the documentation.

Yes I agree going one step at a time is the way to go, and I am stuck on step 1. I want to update our site, and don't know what to type in the search bar. I can't find anything to help me update the site, turn on whatever you said was turned off. I watched the Video nothing refers to what I want to first achieve. I am not interested in having my club use FTH if I can't get it working properly with a modern look like my second club has. Left by myself, I see my only choice is to delete the whole darn thing and start over.

I gave you the link to the part of the documentation that deal with turning content on and off. You just need to read what we send you.

Here is the link again
Appearance (includes turning off unwanted content)
support.toastmastersclubs.org/doc/item/appearance

Thank you, I will take a look and try to find someone to help me further with this when I have the time.