You must be added by the website administrator and have approved your addition to this website before logging in.
is displayed on the login form regardless of whether you are a member or not - at that stage the system doesn't know who you are.
If she just types in the first few letters of her name, her full name will show up, she should click on that to load it into the "name" box, then enter her password. If she can't remember her password, she should leave that blank and check for an email link after clicking the authenticate/login box.
To find your photos: Click on the image icon on your page (in edit mode). Click "browse server" on the popup screen that appears. If someone has deleted the images, they will have to be loaded to the server again