Customize opt-in page

We'd like to use the opt in page to get a new member's permission to use club photos on Social media, etc. Can it be customized so that they must explicitly opt out of photos, that is completing the opt-in page defaults them to allow it? And how would VP of PR be notified of an opt out?

Sorry no.
That type of opt-in has to be paper and kept under lock and key as per Toastmasters International guidelines.